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I really do have the best husband on the planet [Jan. 21st, 2009|08:53 pm]
Zoethe
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Ferrett, upon reading my clutter freakout, silently and without fuss cleared out a big chunk of the clutter that had been hanging out in our bedroom. The clutter was completely my doing - bookcases that needed moving and boxes of books that needed unpacking - but he followed through on my expectations without fuss, outside my hearing range, and only because he knew that I was stressed.

How completely awesome and loving and adorable is that?

You are the best, my sweasel. There's none to compare.
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[User Picture]From: fortuna_juvat
2009-01-22 02:00 am (UTC)
Sweasel makes me think of a weasel with strudel.

Fierce AND Delicious!
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:06 am (UTC)
Sweasel is short for "sweet weasel" - which is, in fact, fierce and delicious!
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[User Picture]From: aiela
2009-01-22 02:02 am (UTC)
What an awesome weasel you have!
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:07 am (UTC)
I do, don't I? He is so amazingly wonderful!!!!
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[User Picture]From: casu_consulto
2009-01-22 02:03 am (UTC)
Awwww, that is gorgeous!

Can I tell you mine (since it only just happened)? Craig and I are going out tonight with his Mum. As we are going away tomorrow, we'll have to be back home early, so Craig nominated a pub just down the street from us as the place to have dinner. Unfortunately, when we went to this place on the weekend, they were sold out of their only vegetarian option, which meant there was nothing I could eat. So, before deciding on the venue for tonight, Craig rang the pub to check that they had the veggie item, just so that I wouldn't be disappointed. It's a little thing, really, but it just makes me feel so cared for and supported.
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:08 am (UTC)
That's a HUGE thing! He totally gets cred!!! Give him a "yay, goodguy!" hug from me!!!!
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From: wildcelticrose
2009-01-22 02:04 am (UTC)
Posts like yours give me hope...
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:09 am (UTC)
I consider myself to be among the luckiest women in the world. And yet I know other guys who are also this sweet. They are not perfect - gods know that there are times when I could give him a good thumping of the ears, and he is among the best - but with a little give and take, they are awesome, awesome guys.

I wish them upon you, dearheart.
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From: wildcelticrose
2009-01-22 02:11 am (UTC)
I may actually have found one...

I'm pretty skittish, so it will take time for me to trust that..

I mean seriously... What is more romantic than a card (that he FOUND) with two cats, sitting on a fence in the moonlight; one saying to the other, "If I had two dead rats, I'd give you one?"
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[User Picture]From: aiela
2009-01-22 02:14 am (UTC)
That is an awesome card!
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From: wildcelticrose
2009-01-22 02:22 am (UTC)
The coolest thing about it (probably only to me; it would likely repel most women and they would find it tacky)

He found it on the ground while out walking.

This was not an "event" card.

He saw it laying there and said, "Wow, that's how I feel"

Ya know, I treasure that silly, crumpled up card that someone discarded.

At Christmas (the "expected" get a card holiday) he gave me a handwritten note on a card from the Wildlife conservancy along with an upgrade to my little point and shoot camera (more megapixels and he knew I would not buy one for myself)

the note said,

"I give this to you, because I believe in your dreams"

There just aren't words...

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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:31 am (UTC)
Seriously. that is awesome.
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From: wildcelticrose
2009-01-22 02:40 am (UTC)
It is awesome, but it will take me time to trust it...

I've made bad decisions in the past. Growing up in an abusive, alcoholic household, I never had a model for a "functional" relationship.

It's common for men to fall in love with "the idea" of me, and then be disappointed to find that I can't stay on that pedestal (no one can) and that I'm human with all the same weaknesses and insecurities.

But I do have hope, for the first time, in a long time...

~L
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 03:05 am (UTC)
I believe in you. That you are ready to bend where bending is needed and ready to stand firm where firmness is required.

The goddess is within you.
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:15 am (UTC)
I am struck aghast by the romance.

Seriously.

This from a woman who regarded two books on Constitutional history a highly romantic gift. So *I* know.

Work on this one, babe.
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[User Picture]From: kagomeshuko
2009-01-22 02:30 am (UTC)
Aw. You have a great guy!
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:40 am (UTC)
I do. I really do.
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[User Picture]From: ccr1138
2009-01-22 02:32 am (UTC)
You are definitely a lucky gal. And he's a lucky guy! You two are so great together. What a team!
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 02:40 am (UTC)
We do, in fact, rawk the world. How awesome is that???!!!!
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 03:06 am (UTC)
Sweasel: sweet weasel.

Can I *be* more 733t?

;-)
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[User Picture]From: kisekinotenshi
2009-01-22 02:56 am (UTC)
That is highly awesome. X3 He gets major awesome points for that, and I thought he was pretty awesome in general before.
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 03:08 am (UTC)
He is awesome in a multidimensional level of awesomeness. Seriously.
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[User Picture]From: fallconsmate
2009-01-22 03:28 am (UTC)
i saw "sweasel" and knew it was "sweet weasel". and he so very much is. i am happy for you both!!

my moment came earlier today when he called and said "i'm leaving here in 30 minutes, be ready because we're going to go get your kitty." we have a kitty! adopted a little girl kitty from the houston humane society. :)
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 03:39 am (UTC)
Awww!!!!! I wish we could have pets. Alas, we both have HUGE allergy issues so have to enjoy those of others!
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[User Picture]From: fallconsmate
2009-01-22 03:41 am (UTC)
i posted pics on my lj...i'd be happy to friend you!
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[User Picture]From: cyan_blue
2009-01-22 09:04 am (UTC)
Awwww :-)

My partner, meanwhile, has been tidying up for my Mom's visit, in above-and-beyond-the-call ways.
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 12:52 pm (UTC)
Yay for the good guys!!!
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[User Picture]From: call_me_harmony
2009-01-22 11:06 am (UTC)
Awesome :)
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[User Picture]From: pjhandley
2009-01-22 11:51 am (UTC)
oh, talk about scoring great brownie points. You do have a very good man there.......
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[User Picture]From: zoethe
2009-01-22 01:19 pm (UTC)
I do. I really, really do.
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