A point of clarification |
[Jun. 6th, 2009|12:31 pm]
Zoethe
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The shit-flipping that I did last night? That was completely *my* shit-flipping. It was what upset *me*. Ferrett's reasons for deleting his journal were not my reasons for flipping out.
Here are his reasons, from him:
I really didn't want to do this, but I'm making one brief announcement here.
I'm not upset by people who stay on the attack. In the incident in question, which I really would have preferred not to be blown up into something bigger than it was, the issue was not the folks who were angry enough to shut down dialogues. (And they weren't particularly bad, either, mostly civil.)
I was upset by the people I cared about who were hurt.
The issue is that I'm tired of making posts that say the exact opposite of what I feel. I'm tired of hurting people who don't deserve it. I'm tired of saying things which, due to poor wording or misguided humor or whatever other numerous flaws I have, manage to keep kicking good, wonderful people in the heart.
Over the past sixteen months, I've been dealing with the increasing feeling that my journal is just a place that serves to make me look like a fool, foster opinions I don't stand behind, and injure people. I'm starting to hurt every time I hit the "post" button, wondering what asshole thing I'll missay this time. And just when I think I'm okay, I screw up again.
My goal is, and has always been, to promote harmony, peace, love, acceptance, and tolerance. I just wish I could do better at that. And I'm sorry that I don't. |
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