Oblivious discourteous people are everywhere. I made the mistake of going to Costco on a Monday morning. That woman wheeling her cart directly at me never even looked up as I screeched to a halt and got out of her way, so that the aisle could continue to belong to her alone. Off she went, as I stood there shaking my head.
It gets all the worse when pets (and children) are involved. It not only annoys me, it disgusts me that parents and pet owners can be so callous and set such a crappy example for their kids. I'm surprised the bulldog's owner wasn't on her cell phone. People, people, people!!!
And if she had hit you, she would have been pissed. People....
I tried a flexi-leash briefly, on the theory that my dog might be comfortable within a radius slightly larger than a 6' leash allowed, but that I'd want more control when she was closer.
That theory didn't work so well.
I used one, but if I was walking the dog on any sort of path or street, it would be tight. Letting it out was for if I was in some sort of open park or meadow and the dog (and I, by extension) were chasing pigeons or squirrels, which I of course would not allow near any sort of road because danger. This is in NYC, so aside from straight-up dog parks, there aren't many good open places for allowing a dog to run off leash, so it's the expandable leash for that purpose and that alone.
I really hate the people in NYC who let their dogs walk entirely off-leash because "He's well trained." I don't give a shit, my dog wasn't friendly toward other dogs but now I have to work twice as hard to keep her calm and protect YOUR dog because you can't hold a freaking loop. Plus they're never actually looking at their dogs either - I saw a bulldog not notice its owner had stopped at a corned and just kept walking down the street and the owner was fucking oblivious for nearly a block.
Maybe it's just because my dog was small and could easily get underfoot or not be seen by a driver (or could poop and then I'd have to pick it up unlike some other thoughtless owners), but if I was walking my dog, I was focused on her.
Pardon the rant. Shitty self-absorbed NYC dog owners are unfortunately populous, and it makes me really angry because most of them have more money and free time than me.
No pardon needed; that sounds really annoying.
I don't care how well-trained your dog is, no dog is immune from a sudden distraction that will send it running into the road. I think that's awful.
I take the same data and come to a slightly different conclusion: I'm worried. I love my dog, and do not want her to be in a fight with a car that she will inevitably lose.
OTOH, we both enjoy off-leash hiking in appropriately designated areas, far from any such traffic.
When we lived in Alaska, there was plenty of opportunity to walk out golden like that. It's going to be at least another season before I even Bakely think of trusting Shasta to walk off leash in someplace where way are unlikely to encounter bikes or other dogs or horses or anything. She's just a little too flaky.
We did not try this until we had fairly high confidence in our emergency recall. As it turned out, our dog has no inclination to get out of sight of us, but that was just luck.
The locking mechanisms don't always hold, and it's pretty much impossible to know when an emergency situation is going to happen. I do not like them.
I'm not fond of them, either. It was an experiment (one among many) when our dog was new to us.
We also have one of those ball-throwing sticks. Which works great, except our dog has no interest in fetching.
People can be really dumb about pets. I'm glad my daughter is fairly cautious on the whole and doesn't typically approach other people's pets. It doesn't come up a lot but I make sure to tell her to ask the owner if she can pet the dog, unless the owner offers before I can say anything, which happens fairly often.
Thank you for being a good parent.
See now, this is what I don't get about some parents - they teach their kids not to touch breakables, or other things without permisssion, but animals are fair game for inquiring fingers? Then it's the pet owner's fault if the pet bites their precious? It is beyond logic.
Fortunately, the neighborhood children who have spotted my cats, knew enough tuck their hands behind them, and ask if they could pet the pretty kitties...and to their parents, I am thankful. One little monster pulled my Darklette's tail, much to her outrage. Fortunately I intervened before she could bite the little bugger.
I admit to having the extending leashes. I've used them, but I've always watched my dog. They aren't for when I need m dog under tight control. I do have leashes that don't extend. I'll bring the extending ones to places like parks when I know they will have room to move around the park and I will use the feature that makes the leash not extend at a certain point. I think people forget to use that lock feature. I use it lots.
I've seen those lock mechanisms give way when a larger dog lunges at the end of the leash. I don't trust them. But what you're describing - a open park situation - is the only one that even makes a little sense to me.
Of course, I have a chihuahua and a chihuahua-terrier. I didn't use the extending leash when I had my beagle-lab mix. It was too hard to control.
2014-03-11 03:01 pm (UTC)
Re: You are SO right!
I'm not sure I would put all my trust in pheromones! Glad that worked out for you.
I admit I'd be (selfishly) very sad if extending leashes were banned because I am a lucky dog owner with a ridiculously well-behaved lab that can handle more freedom. A leash is truly a legal formality for her so it's my way of giving her some space and still have her "on a leash" (seriously, she's 3 years old and does not chase anything, ever, even when in off-leash parks). It's sad that people can't self-monitor whether a product is good for them (or their pets), and ruin it for others.
I also use common sense -in a store, the leash is retracted because... duh. But in a park, or on a trail where there are wonderful smells all over the place...
I wish more dog owners were like you.
My grandfather had one of those extendable leashes but that was in part because there was no controlling the dog at all and so we didn't take him walking anywhere but the nature preserve behind our house, or the woods around the vacation house. My grandfather never could have kept him if it wasn't for living so close to the woods and the dog being so small, and the fact that the dog would never lose it at *people*, just other dogs and cars. And then later the dog was moved to my aunt's farm where no one at all was going to run into him.
Possibly thanks to all of these terribly-behaved-but-would-never-hurt-us dogs (my grandfather's previous two dogs were similar), I didn't really learn that some dogs will hurt you until I went to pet one in college and my boyfriend, being familiar with this particular dog, yanked me back just as it lunged at me.
Yikes! Glad you weren't hurt!
And yes, the country is different.
I'm in total agreement with you on this. And will add my gripe that with the spring thaw, all those dog turds on the sidewalk that people didn't bother to pick up are making going for a walk in the neighborhood rather hazardous.
Not cleaning up after your pet is horrible. That makes me angry.
2014-03-30 03:48 pm (UTC)
They seem to have become an excuse for not training a dog. Does anyone teach a dog to heel anymore?